Updated on Wednesday, September 18, 2013
MISSED CONNECTION: To the most fantastic girl I've ever had the pleasure of getting to know: I hope you understand that we both need to forget each other due to the complicated situation we've found ourselves in, but just know that I never stop thinking about you and I love you so deeply. I wish you the best and I hope to be so lucky as to find another girl even half as amazing as you.
Reading this makes me so sad.
ReplyDeleteIf you genuinely do love this girl, don't let go so easily.
Trust your gut or your might live to regret it.
Dude, what situation could be complicated enough to persuade you from trying to be with the girl you love you so deeply and never stop thinking about?
ReplyDeleteTake it from me, it's unlikely you'll find another one of these girls. I'd cease the day while you still can.
VDV, if this is you, come back. It doesn't have to be this way.
ReplyDeleteMakes me feel like my ex wrote this for me :(
ReplyDeleteKnow that feel *Sighhs* but ah well, it's not like it'd do anything but drag up old hurts.
DeleteStop being such a fucking pussy.
ReplyDelete@5 agreed. OP what the hell is wrong with you, stop acting like a little girl. If you have an issue, grab a tissue nancy.
ReplyDeleteI wish more than anything that this was about me, but I know it isn't. OP, could you please say at least why it is complicated? Just so I know if this is about me.
ReplyDeleteReach out to her. She probably feels the same way.
ReplyDeleteGood luck trying to forget if you are actually in love with her.
ReplyDeletewow..more details OP?
ReplyDeleteWe often need to lose sight of our priorities in order to see them.
ReplyDeleteOP, I'm in the same situation as you.... You'll never forget that one perfect woman. And maybe, maybe you can't be with her now. But later on down the road, you'll be with her again so long as she knows that you're the one for her too
ReplyDeleteI totally get how this feels. Ended it with my fwb just before the term started. Got scared of developing romantic feelings, but it was too late. Can't stop thinking about him now.
ReplyDeleteThe number of people who share circumstances so similar that they think this post is about them...I find that sad. I'm not being condescending or pithy or derogatory in any way, I genuinely find it sad that there are so many smart, wonderful people potentially all around me who feel so alone and have to suffer like this. As someone struggling with their own, I hope you all find the happiness you're looking for.
ReplyDeleteOP here,
ReplyDeleteTo those who want to know more, the problem is that I feel like I have to be the morally right "good guy." I love her and she loves me, what we have is so special, but there is someone else, someone who beat me to the punch, someone that simply can't just go away...
My hands are tied, it's not up to me, you can't always get what you want. All I can do is wait and hope that she realizes that her feelings for me are as important as I know they are. But for now, all I can do is wait and long for that fateful day. I wish it was simpler
This could easily be one-sided and creepy. Not saying it is, but that's what people in similar situations should consider.
ReplyDelete"wait and hope that she realizes that her feelings for me are as important as I know they are" is what jumped out at me. You try to tell me what I'm feeling and I'll show you exactly where to shove it.
I have no idea why, but in my head OP is indian..
ReplyDeletegod this is so weird.
@17 maybe because this story is taking a bollywood direction..
ReplyDeleteLOL
DeleteI actually laughed. Well done.
DeleteOP again,
ReplyDelete16, I understand what you mean, and that's a part of it. I want to respect her wishes and give her freedom to choose what is right for her, but right now she is confused and uncertain. All I do know is that she does love me, and that she's an amazing girl, I just have to find out if we can ever see what truly exists between us
@17, that's probably because I am, haha. I don't know how you got that through text though
Blech this whole post was so cute before OP came on here and spewed all the dramatic details.
ReplyDeletePS: I don't think she would be with another guy if she really did love you. Sorry for that harsh reality check, but it's true.
When you wrote this I assumed that you guys had broken up due to a move or something and that she was still single. If she was sick over you I don't think she'd have a new boyfriend.
Some people need to get a reality check. If she is with someone else, it clearly means she doesn't love you anymore. Stop making assumptions about how much she loves you and misses you.
ReplyDeleteYeaaaah, dude, when a girl is heartsick over you, she isn't dating other people.
ReplyDeleteAs someone who is in that situation, I can tell you I wouldn't be interested in seeing anyone else right now. And I'm pretty sure that's universal.
If she's with someone else, that doesn't mean she doesn't love you anymore, but it does mean you need to give her space, and let her try to succeed in new relationship. If that one isn't meant to be, then who knows- you might find yourself together.
ReplyDeleteGive it another try, make memories together even if it was not meant to be.
ReplyDeleteOmg give me your initials. I need to know if you were him.
ReplyDeleteOP here,
ReplyDelete@24 I think you and 23 have given the best advice so far
@25 They're C.B.
OP here,
ReplyDelete@24 I think you and 23 have given the best advice so far
@25 They're C.B.