MISSED CONNECTION: To the guy that I met a little while ago,
You think we're just friends and I'm trying to play it cool but this bothers me.
We met, you said all the right things, and gave me hope. You let me believe that maybe we could take this somewhere. You let me believe that you thought my smile was cute and that I was the kindest girl you had ever met. I got mesmerized by the way you looked at me, and started picturing what it would be like if there became a such thing as you&I. All too quickly, I snapped back to reality when you said you weren't looking for anything serious. Who was I kidding? I'm not your type at all. Why did I fall for your words? Why did I get my hopes up so high? I don't know what happened. Did you just decide you weren't interested anymore, or did you think I was easy? In any case, you're going to wish you had given this a chance.
Sorry op, I know how you feel, happens to guys too. I found it best to just move on, and make myself better. I started working out more, studying harder, eating healthier. Started having girls try to pick me up at parties, got back on the deans list, and have just overall better health
ReplyDeletelmao stfu you stupid bitch and go out and suck a bag of dicks
ReplyDeleteso rude
DeleteI think all girls go through this. After this experience, you will become more careful with guys, don't set your expectations so high and don't trust loud and cheesy words. What I have learned is when a guy is too sweet, elegant and confident he probably has been with a lot of women.
ReplyDeleteI'm a girl and I feel like this post is bullshit. I don't want a serious relationship but does that mean I can't flirt and talk to guys? As long as he made sure you knew he didn't want anything too serious, what's your complaint? Sounds like he was just being a nice guy. It's 100% possible that he likes you a lot but isn't wanting a relationship. I am in that situation now. I like a guy and he likes me, doesn't mean we need to date. I don't want to be tied down. I know a lot of people will think I'm being a tease and a bitch, but that's how it is. Don't hate him for being honest.
ReplyDeleteYou wouldn't be a bitch if you let him know you don't want to date him right now. If you tease him, and string him along, then you are a bitch.
Deleteyo what faculty this dude in?
ReplyDeleteYou have tumblr don't you, seems like a generic post from the crappy site.
ReplyDeleteI think you might be wrong about this guy
ReplyDeleteI've been accused a few times of "leading a girl on". If carrying a conversation, and being kind and courteous is "leading a girl on", then girls need to pull their heads outta the sand. Sorry I'm not a douchebag who treats a girl disrespectfully. There are nice guys out there, who can have a close friendship with a girl, without wanting more. Stop getting so attached to the first guy who pays you a compliment.
ReplyDeleteRant over.
It does count as "leading the girl on" if he pays her all of these compliments and also directly asks her out, and then proceeds to basically say that he changed his mind.
DeleteJust saying.