Updated on Tuesday, November 12, 2013
MISSED CONNECTION: I can't stop thinking about you and it's really frustrating. I know that you are a bit of an asshole. I am with a boy who loves me and I love him. I wish I could forget about you. but you've shown in a few ways that you're still interested in me too. I wish I could find out without being a bad person or making a fool out of myself whether you're worth a shot.
Break up with your boyfriend... you don't deserve him
ReplyDeleteIf you loved your boyfriend you wouldn't be having these second thoughts.
ReplyDeleteAgreed. OP is a bitch.
ReplyDeleteWow. I was in a really long relationship and had feelings like this too. Yes, you still love your boyfriend but sometimes things just get a little old and you crave something new. It doesn't make you a bad person until you act on it. Don't worry OP, you're not alone. To other commenters, unless you have been in this situation don't bother.
ReplyDeleteThere's nothing wrong with loving more than one person. Talk to your boyfriend about how you feel. Nothing is more important than honesty.
ReplyDeleteOh boy, the "deserve" police are out again.
ReplyDeleteLife lesson: "Deserve has nothing to do with it."
I know the feeling OP!!! So frustrating... Just don't hurt the people you love please... It will pass and just remind yourself that you think the other guy is an asshole and remember all the good things about your boyfriend... Maybe start having more intimate things with your current boyfriend to spice things up and get over your crush
ReplyDelete"Experimenting"/cheating would be pretty selfish and when you're in a relationship it's more about the other person than it is about you.
I agree, it'll pass OP!
DeleteSame scenario as the show Awkward! Just don't screw up like Jenna!
ReplyDeleteIf you break up with your BF to be with me, I won't trust you in a relationship. If you break up with him because you honestly don't want to be with him anymore, and we get together, that would be fine.
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ReplyDeletebreak up with your boy friend he sounds like a pussy, I mean that in the most respectful way possible. Sounds like you too are after different things
ReplyDeleteone calm and safe
two dangerous and exiting
I pick the second one every time.
And to anyone that can't understand why girls say they want nice guys but they date assholes, they really mean they don't want pussy's, but they with they could also have a non pussy that wont hurt her.
It seems like you current boyfriend will be hurt now or latter, so don't drag him on. He doesn't deserve to have his heart broken.
It's ok to be a pussy, or a nice guy, as we men like to call it, it's a diferent perspective.
but if there's one thing you two should agree on is do you want fun or safety, you can't have both
your both young have fun. be safe when your old and you've had enough heart ache and good times. What would happiness be if you didn't know what it felt like to be sad?
Deletehow long have you known the other guy?
ReplyDeleteIt's too bad things cooled down.
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