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Updated on Monday, January 20, 2014

#5614

MISSED CONNECTION: To the girl from my Envs Law class from last sem who also works at a certain club. I'm sick of playing tic tac text, let's just get hangout already. I'll even offer my services to help you paint your room.

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  1. Bro!!! Don't be TOOO available & forget the help to paint her room, your coming off as TOOO needy & annoying! Be unavailable, mysterious & create emotion in her before inviting her out to do something! Bro to bro, take it or leave it!!

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    2. Lily stop being a bitch. Show your comment.

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  2. Bro!!! Don't be TOOO available & forget the help to paint her room, your coming off as TOOO needy & annoying! Be unavailable, mysterious & create emotion in her before inviting her out to do something! Bro to bro, take it or leave it!!

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  3. Lily you fucktard, stop hating cause your not getting any

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  4. Op here. Everyone relax its like I walked into a YouTube comments section yeesh.

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  5. OP, shush! Focus on upping your game if you want any tail

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    1. and how should OP do that? Plus what if OP isn't just going for "tail".

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  6. women are attracted to men who have more value than themselves. she works in a club, she is bound to know a lot of people and be social. you have to top that. join a few clubs that your passionate about, be a more social guy, make platonic female friends, be a leader in a club or two && show it in your social media!! she will be interested. you have to have the approach that your going for tail because than only will you stop coming off as needy. no offence to women, i love y'all.

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  7. "women are attracted to men who have more value than themselves" What a generalized statement that is based in your personal belief. OP could be a part of a bunch of clubs and very social and it may not matter to her.

    "you have to have the approach that your going for tail because than only will you stop coming off as needy."

    For OPS sake I hope he just acts as a genuinely kind individual who is honest and direct. If your approach is the type that OP has to take them maybe he enrolled in a highschool and not UW.

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  8. To 8, when is the last time you saw a girl go out with a total loner? Women do feel attraction for guys with high value. Value shows a woman that a guy has a goal, wants to achieve, his passion and drive that is worthy of associating herself. If he was part of clubs, he would be able to show her that he has other options! Women are attracted to men who show that there have been other women who have invested their time and emotions in them!!!!! He would surely not have this situation if he was in clubs and knew how to use it to his advantage!!Lets try conference call number today. Men put women on a pedastal. Remove them off of it! Men are too willing to supply and meet a woman's terms! They don't realize that by providing her what she asks for or says is killing any attraction she has for you! Woman love a challenge, a guy they have to work hard to change or win over! Woman enjoy chasing a man and falling for him, not having a guy serving her at her will!!

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    1. Not 8, but I can definitively answer today. My boyfriend and I are both loners. Being a loner doesn't mean that you don't have value; there's a lot of other things that make a person 'valuable'. And there's a difference between making the good points about yourself known and trying to fake what you don't have. If OP is not a social person and the girl in question is, then him pretending to be social is only going to run him down and make her think that he's someone he's not.
      In my opinion it would be better to play to your strengths and be yourself. Show her whatever you know you're good at, not necessarily how socially in demand you are. If she is uninterested then it's likely because you're incompatible, so you're not really at a loss. Rejection isn't as big of a deal as it's made out to be. It doesn't have to be an insult. The only thing that it means is that you're not compatible together. This is from the point of view of someone looking for a relationship by the way, not a one night stand. Even someone who gets rejected for something trivial like their looks is incompatible with the person that rejected them because one of the two is too vain for the relationship to happen. Better to be rejected immediately than to have a shitty relationship a month down the road where you both drain each other's patience and energy.
      Also, you say that men put women on a pedestal and I think that this is true, but in changing yourself to suit what you think a woman wants you're doing the exact same thing. If you don't already have a lot of woman friends or good social skills, then bending over backwards trying to gain them for the sole purpose of impressing a woman is putting her on quite a high pedestal.
      My advice to OP is to be yourself and be upfront. Tell her what you said here that you want to stop messing around and hang out already and see how she responds. Ask her out to somewhere you both like. Maybe don't bribe her with your painting services though.

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    2. Stop spouting PUA bullshit. That stuff only works on stupid girls. I don't want to date a stupid girl.

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  9. Random sentence in middle... Ignore

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