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Updated on Tuesday, April 1, 2014

#5834

MISSED CONNECTION: You love someone so much, yet they don't love you back, and simply never will. You know there are others out there, but there will never be someone like her. Friend zone is a stupid word for this.

My heart aches every time I get a message from you and every time I see you (which is not so often). You have a healthy relationship going on and I would give anything in this world to be that guy.

I don't know how to deal with this pain. I can't cut connections with you, and I can't keep them either.

16 comments

  1. Give it up buddy. I know it seems completely impossible and insane but in all likelihood this girl isn't even that special. Most people aren't. Its that mutual connection and love that makes someone really special and all the rest is hormonal attraction and a mental block.

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  2. You're doing this to yourself, get over it. But don't be an overly emotional brat and try to cut contact. Just phase them out. Welcome to being an adult and making rational decisions for yourself.

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  3. telling myself this is about me

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  4. this makes me cringe....reminds me of my old friend. too bad his feelings got in the way. i know i couldn't control the way he felt for me but at the same time i couldn't stand him being jealous all the time when i interacted with other guys or when i started liking someone. i only liked him as a friend. don't do this to yourself. stop wishing to be "that guy" that she's with. one day someone will come along who will love you in the same way. until then, learn to love yourself.

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  5. I know how that bro.
    Try this, look at the girls around you, the girls you don't know, and try to imagine how great and amazing they can be, or what a great love story they can be a part of.
    Then after a while if you felt that you want to be a part of one those stories, make a connection and see how it goes. You'll see any girl can be just as great or even more than the girl you like right now.

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  6. I've been there OP! Give it time, everything will be okay even if it doesn't look like it now.

    I would say distancing yourself for a bit is probably a good idea, she doesn't even have to know, just say you're busy with other stuff. It definitely helped me :)

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  7. MAN UP AND CUT CONTACT

    UGH SOME PEOPLE

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  8. Step 1: Stop being a whiny, clingy bitch.
    Step 2: Consider acting like a man.

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  9. You people are assholes. When a guy shares the way he feels and that he's in pain, he gets told to grow a pair. Why is a guy not allowed to feel hurt and express it like a girl can? Our society is fucked. But anyway, hope you feel better buddy.

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  10. Start a new connection with someone else.

    Start one with yourself.

    Think about it.

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  11. Hang tough young blood, cut contact and do the things you love to do.

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  12. find someone else to masturbate to

    is not a joke man, your neurotransmitters will fix you

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