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Updated on Sunday, May 18, 2014

#5941

MISSED CONNECTION: 
YOU: Asian boy ( Chinese)
Me: African girl

Every time we have a meeting and you came across something funny.. you would laugh and I would start laughing. For some reason I was really attracted to your laughs and smiles. :D

28 comments

  1. Hate to break it to you... but asian dudes don't generally go for Black chicks.

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    1. True to an extent. All depends on the type of guy. If he's been exposed since a young age to different cultures there is no reason to believe he wouldn't be attracted to a black female. I'm asian and don't think race matters.

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    2. That's just sad. I mean what if he like her, you don't speak for all Asian men.

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  2. I really like this MC. Hope something good comes of it.

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    1. +1. getting real tired of people who refuse to date someone just because of their race

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    2. Sorry for not being attracted to certain races.

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    3. @2A

      Certain physical features just aren't attractive to me. It just so happens one race predominantly has these features. Does taht make me a racist?

      I don't think it does.

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  3. @2c yes it does. There are beautiful people in every race you piece of shit.

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    1. Sure there are beautiful people in every race. But I'm not obliged to date/go out with/marry them.

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    2. No one asked you to 3c. 2c asked if that made him/ her a racist, I answered it did.

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    3. @3d: That doesn't make any sense. You can have the same amount of respect for any person without being attracted to them. If I were attracted only to men and not women, does that make me sexist too?

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    4. Hey, decided to put my two cents in. It's not racist to dislike certain facial features, imo. It's definately discriminatory to not be attracted to an entire race (100%) just because some percentage (<100%) of them have said facial feature. Also an aside: some people are not attracted to people with a certain ethnic background because they associate unamiable characteristics with said people... which is unfortunate because a person is more than the sum of their parts.
      - Ebony female

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  4. OP, you're brave for posting this, given the Jim Crow responses...

    Can you racists fuck off? Saying "I'm not attracted to a particular race and you can't *force* me to date them" assumes anyone was asking for your opinion.

    Here's the thing... no one was. You offered your opinion unsolicited. You were seeking an opportunity to say "I think women/men of $race are hideous and I won't date any." If you truly weren't racist you'd be daft to assume you'd never be attracted to a single person of an *entire race*, and you certainly wouldn't be so eager to show off your preferences on the internet.

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    1. Was it really unsolicited?

      > +1. getting real tired of people who refuse to date someone just because of their race

      > @2c yes it does. There are beautiful people in every race you piece of shit.

      As you can see, those were replies, not just random opinions. Read the thread before commenting.

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  5. @Above replies. It is not racist to say you do not find a certain race attractive, or are sexually attracted. We are not saying a certain race is inferior or any less beautiful.

    It is just a personal preference, for instance, I am not attracted to fat people. I think a lot of bigger guys and gals have beautiful faces. Just personally I am attracted to people that has a certain body type

    Or I am not attracted to a guy that is shorter than I am.

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    1. i am attracted to anything that moves, animate or not

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  6. Damn... China man just ask the girl out!!! be a man :p

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  7. I'm not saying it's racist to have perferences, but I think it IS degrading to another race when people openly say how they would never date 'x' race and only like 'y'. It comes with the implication there is something unattractive about an entire race and that's only contributing to segregation of races and is just plain hurtful and unnecessary.

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    1. @7: 3.f here, I agree wholeheartedly.

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    2. I think it's just personal preference.

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    3. @7: I don't think it's racist to not date a particular race. I can find people of a certain race attractive, but I'm not attracted TO them. I just can't see myself romantically involved with them. That being said I still show as much respect to those races that I wouldn't date as I would any other race. I'm only speaking for myself in this post, but I know for a fact this applies to many others as well.

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    4. 7c, I don't care if you think it's racist or not, you still are racist.

      Saying that the fact that you're not attracted to men & only women is comparable to you only being attracted to white people & not black is NOT the same.

      You are implying that you are not willing to look beyond the colour of their skin. Do you even know the meaning of racism?

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    5. @7d, so if I am unattracted to people with big noses and one race happens to prominently feature big noses, that makes me a racist?

      How can I control what I am attracted to and what I am not attracted to? To clarify, I'm not saying I don't find all people of that race unattractive, only those who have certain facial features. Which just happen to be over represented in that race.

      For example, I might be turned off by small eyes, and therefore generally not attracted to asian women. But asian women who have big eyes... well yea, they are hot.

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  8. what the fuck is this website

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  9. this is extremely fucked up

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